There Is No Right Time

We often wait for the right time to do things. We try to prepare. Is there a right time to do things? To do ANYTHING?

I find myself pausing, thinking that what is out there is unknown. It's scary and I am not ready.

But are we EVER ready completely?

I've heard it a thousand times over that I should take the leap and honestly speaking, as a youth, I was really good at taking the leap. I wasn't afraid of anything because I thought I knew what to do.

Of course I walked into walls. But I continued walking anyway. That's the bravado of the young.

Now that I have children and am significantly older, the pausing has become longer.

There is no right time to do anything. Anything in life can snap and be taken away from us without notice, anyway.

So, if we think about it, what's the point of pausing and waiting for the right time again? In reality, the time may never come. Anyone can talk about it, I know, and it makes sense. But when you're faced with a decision, a big task, I pause. Being a parent has made me a cautious, timely and well-planned person. I no longer know how to do things on the fly. Impromptu, if you will.

But that's where the most fun is had, isn't it? It's not really all that fun to be an adult and that's a reality.

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